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I appreciate the laughs with this topic which is exhausting already (to me). And I say laughs because your reports and charts are overshadowed by the bluntness and honesty of your approach to the situation. I can see a lot of people in the field doing stand-up comedy as a direct result of all of these experience… oh wait, that’s already happening (https://www.tiktok.com/@austinnasso/video/7509533732408151342).

Not sure whether the protracted processes are a new thing, tho. Writers from the shouts and murmurs section of the New Yorker was already making fun of this in 2018 https://www.newyorker.com/humor/daily-shouts/re-our-hiring-process and 2022 https://www.newyorker.com/humor/daily-shouts/if-you-want-this-job-we-must-interview-you-forever. Maybe what has happened is that in our rush to be more like America we now see it more up close? I like capitalism, don’t get me wrong, but the kind where mostly humans are still at the core of the value exchange.

Step 1 sounds like you’re picking from one of those “make-your-own” menus, but really, it all boils down to what economic state we’re in and how much you’re ready to trade off which is another way of saying “picking your non-negotiables”. And even in a good economic state, the fundamental thing is: What is available in your context? (And whoever comes back to me with the whole remote preaching, there’s not that many options and that work mode does not fit everyone).

Your network sentence did not make sense to me, but I guess the strength of your network (and not the size of it) is what matters most. A lot of introverts don’t network peacock style, and yet they have very strong networks and successful careers and support.

I must say I have nostalgia for the times when looking for a job didn’t feel like a popularity contest. Maybe because I was not thinking much of it, maybe because it is not the same to look for a job in your 20s than it is in your 40s, maybe because I love networking for the pure social benefit of it and suck at it professionally.

Whatever the case, my energy right now is on making things work for me independently, but if I have to go back to the job market as a seeker, I might experiment with some of your tips!

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